My Heart Is Shattered, Battered And Scattered –FUTO Alumna cries out

Posted by Ade Adeola Solomon



A lady known to be a FUTO ex-student (Alumna) expressed her feelings after being used and dumped by a man she has been in a relationship with throughout her stay in University for 5 years.

She said, 

"I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am sure the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 29.

Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April because of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house.

I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question because same lady posted him too calling him her first love.

He told me the lady was his cousin sister and of course I believed him because she bares same surname with his cousin brother whose wedding we attended together.


He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion, so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady.

My heart has never been this broken before in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly these days. I tried not to cry but I just can’t.😭

I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.😭😭

 I have tried to encourage myself but I just can’t stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship at FUTO and I swear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him.

My heart is bleeding.

I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied “thanks”

He feels I don’t deserve an explanation."

What Should She Do?  She's going down emotionally and mentally. 😭😭😭


Advise her!!! Comment below.

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